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For this week’s edition, members of The Argus sat down to discuss the holiday of love and how best to celebrate it on campus. Single and ready to mingle? In need of a Valentine’s date idea? The Argus has you covered!
I’m single; what can I do on Valentine’s Day?
Lucky for you, Valentine’s Day falls on a Saturday this year! Throw on your party pants, blast some dancing tunes, and search around for a campus party. Our section recommends looking along Fountain Avenue or High Street. Who knows, you might not end the night single.
If you’re not the party type, don’t fret; the campus will be buzzing with other options! On Saturday, Feb. 14, “Black Orpheus” (1959) is set to take the stage at the Wesleyan Film Series. What’s more perfect than a movie night!
If you’re feeling inspired by Heated Rivalry to become a supporter of University athletics, there are plenty of teams competing on campus this Saturday. Swing by Freeman Athletic Center to catch men’s hockey, wrestling, and men’s and women’s squash.
Date ideas for Valentine’s?
Plan a study date in Olin Library, stargaze on Foss Hill (be sure to make snow angels), or take a romantic walk into the winter wonderland that is Middletown and explore the restaurants Main Street has to offer.
There are multiple options on campus for the classic dinner date. If Usdan is not the romantic atmosphere you are looking for, there is always Summies (or Swings to impress your partner and splurge on points).
How should I ask my crush to be my Valentine?
Oh, the big question. Dear reader, there are a plethora of methods one could use to pose the iconic question, but here are some that are quite feasible on campus.
Here is the conventional choice: When it comes to Valentine’s Day, chocolate and candies are essential for both you and your significant other. Start by buying some treats from Weshop, but be sure to go before it closes at 6 p.m. (if only they understood the importance of this day). Once the candy mission is complete, compose a lovely and heartfelt note and deliver it; it’s definitely a classic.
If you want to take a bolder approach, stand up on a table at Usdan and declare your love. This will demonstrate your confidence as well as your apparent lack of social awareness. What could be more romantic than a love confession at Usdan University Center?
If you’re not feeling these in-person options, it’s fortunate for you that we live in the age of technology. Take to the digital platforms and either message your crush on the WeScam Instagram or post on Fizz.
Where can I find love on campus?
Attending a small liberal arts institution can have its drawbacks. For one, it often feels like we are running out of new people to meet, and therefore, the stream of eligible bachelors and bachelorettes seems to be continuously drying up. But have no fear! There are always corners of campus to meet new people. Stake out a campus cafe, approach someone new at a party, or maybe crack open a book on Foss Hill and wait for someone to ask, “What are you reading?”
If you are looking for a more structured occasion, there are an endless number of events held by campus clubs. Check out WesNest for various offerings happening around Valentine’s day, including a board game night or a Valentine’s themed concert at Alpha Delta Phi.
I have been worried about my partner’s obsession with Bad Bunny. What can I do?
We understand this fear. The Super Bowl had our eyes collectively glued on the screen for one standout player (and it wasn’t Drake Maye). A week after winning album of the year, the superstar rapper, singer, and occasional wrestler headlined the halftime show with a tribute to Puerto Rico, where 128.2 million viewers tuned in.
Some reacted with anger, viewing the NFL’s choice as a threat to American security. The Argus trusts our readers know that Puerto Rico is a U.S. territory, but if you feel that Bad Bunny is becoming a threat to your relationship, we can offer you advice.
First, set boundaries on the number of edits your partner watches around you. Communication is a healthy part of any relationship.
Next, we suggest you star in the Calvin Klein ad, buy bold sunglasses, or get a tattoo. If you can’t beat him—and only a few of us can—join him.
Maggie Smith can be reached at mssmith@wesleyan.edu.
Claire Farina can be reached at cfarina@wesleyan.edu.
Leah Ziskin can be reached at lziskin@wesleyan.edu.
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